Our Open Adoption

Our open adoption was one of the most serious and heavy discussions Douglas and I had in our whole adoption process. There are so many different feelings and opinions out there about open adoptions. We needed to come to an agreement about where we both actually stood on this. For us, this was already an…

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Resolutions

As Im inching closer and closer to 40 now, It’s so easy for me to get distracted from my personal health. Since we had Alli Mae, it seems as my own work out schedule falls by the waste side, and-rightfully so. Especially in the early months after we brought her home, there was definitely no…

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Tummy Troubles

So much information flood your mind when preparing to bring your new baby home. All the books you read, the advice you’ve been given and all the videos you watch simply cannot touch on everything you must know. If you’ve already been thru this, you may agree… but if you are just starting out- take…

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Traditions

Some of my fondest memories growing up were the smells coming from my grandmother’s kitchen. We were always so excited after Halloween because we knew that she was going to be baking in her kitchen from Thanksgiving until New Years. I have been replicating some of those very recipes for years now because just one…

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Lead by Example…

I will admit, it is an unsettling time right now for a lot of people in America. We have come a very long way in the past eight years. The progress we have made should not be overshadowed by anger and fear but as a gay man, with a husband and daughter it is impossible…

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Building Our Perfect Nursery

So many thoughts flashed through our minds when we were matched with our birth mother. Where do we start? Bottles, diapers, onesies? It can all be overwhelming, so we focused on one thing at a time. Planning is your friend. The more you plan, the better organized you will be for when the big day comes! First focus:…

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The 6 Year Pattern

I had the most interesting conversation with our priest the other day. What he had to tell me was so fascinating . Something that I really hadn’t thought about really all of a sudden made so much sence. I felt it was so encouraging, and with the new year upon us, I felt I would…

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Our Story…

It is so hard to wrap my head around at what this past year has been like. This time last year Douglas and I continued our dialogue about adopting a baby. Although we had talked about it many times in the past, this is when the conversations really became much more in depth. October of 2015…

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